If you want it, find it…

if you want it


Somehow we think that luck or magic will happen in our lives and things will be just the way we want them.

If I find the buried treasure. If I win the lottery. If that talent agent sees me. If I get the inheritance. If I find that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. If I fall in love with a millionaire (maybe a billionaire).

  • If, If If…

If you want something bad enough you have to put in a “four letter word” to get it. You have to work. You have to put in some effort.

  • Work

Do you want to find buried treasure? Then get a shovel, maybe a metal detector, some maps and do some research.

  • Yes some people get lucky.

Yes people get lucky and find some priceless object that makes them wealthy. But the odds are against you if you are just sitting waiting for the treasure to fall in your lap.

  • Most luck is really the result of hard work.

If you want it, put in the effort needed to find it.


Looking for something? Need some help? Call or write me @

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428



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About fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. With a private practice on California's central coast. I work with couples struggling with issues in their marriages to find solutions and balance in their married lives. I also help parents navigate their way through the crazy world of raising a family. This is a second career after 30 years of teaching Art at the high school level. My wife and I have been married for 43 years and have 4 grown children and 10 grandchildren.