Category Archives: Marriage

… A Meaningless Life.

live a meaningful..

What are you willing to die for?

Who are you willing to die for?

A big part of this is to die to your self.

It is about someone or something that is bigger than you.

It is about your willingness to give up to a higher cause.

It’s about being selfless.

It’s about having a true meaning for your life and the lives of others.


Love People, Use Things…

love people

I love my car, I love my phone and on and on and on.

You really can’t love things. You can appreciate them but you really can’t love them.


Because things can’t love you in return.

Things are tools. They are there for a purpose.

The whole love thing is all about giving and getting.

It’s all about loving and being loved.

Don’t love things. They can’t love you.

Love people.


We make It Complicated…

life is simple


A big part of the counseling I give is trying to simplify peoples lives.

We humans have a tendency to complicate things sometimes beyond understanding.

Calm down, take a breath and find out what really matters in your life.

Usually it’s in the simple things.

If life is overwhelming get rid of the complicated stuff and concentrate on the simple things.

The simple things are most times what really matter.

Let’s talk @

Frank Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street 

Cambria, Ca. 93428


Stay In Love…

falling in love.



I’m all about falling in love.

This love stuff is great for you, for me and for the world. Lovers are less likely to be haters. We don’t need any more haters.

  • Falling in love is magical, it’s indescribable.

When asked how you first fell in love with that special someone it’s hard to find the right words. You just, well you “fell” into love.

But that falling in love, that head over heals love, just doesn’t last. It really can’t last. Your mind and body just couldn’t take it. Your head would explode and your body would wither away.

  • At some point you have to come up for air.

At some point you have to calm down, come up for air and stand up and do the stuff that has to be done. Like the laundry, the job, the stuff you need to do to make it in the world. You can try to survive on just love, but your stomach is going to start growling in a while.

  • Then comes the choice.

That’s when the choice part comes in. The cares and demands of the world will pull you away. The stress and busyness of the everyday will overwhelm.

Your choice must be to stay in love. To keep loving despite the pressure to fall out of love. To choose love even when he/she seems to be unlovable. Even when you seem to be unlovable.

  • The only love that counts is a love that will last.

Make the choice of a lasting love.


In love? Out of love? Questions about love? Call, write me @

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428


Frank’s books are available @



Happiness for Others…

in seeking happines



Rule #1

This is the number one rule in the world.

Me, Myself and I.

My happiness, my satisfaction, my wants. Me, Me, Me.

I’m so sorry if you want true happiness you have to be willing to make others happy. In fact your happiness depends on those around you being happy.

  • Life has never been about just you. It’s all about us.
  • Life has never been about just me. It’s all about we.

Try it. Do an experiment. Make others happy. Think of others first. See if it doesn’t change your own life and bring you true happiness.

Questions? Comments? Let’s talk @

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428


Frank’s books are available @


Earth Day April 22nd



Earth Day

Genesis 1:10

And God called the dry land earth and the gathering of the waters He called seas; and God saw that it was good.


Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428


Frank’s books are available @


photo credit:

Gabriella Fabbri

Yesterday is History…




We all worry far too much about what is going to happen.

We fret over what has happened in the past.

So much so that we forget about living in the present moment.

Take a moment, take two or three.

Clear your mind, at least try to.

Look around. There is world you occupy that has much to share and offer. Accept the moment you are in. Enjoy what is happening now.

God is with you right now, acknowledge His presence. You are present, God is present.


Need to talk?

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428